Normal and excessive emotions explained

It is normal to feel happy, relaxed, cautious, sad or annoyed.

These are quite natural emotions that we feel and therefore they

do not affect your energy meridians. Life goes on peacefully and

contentedly when you experience these.

How about excessive?

Excessive feelings are excitement, anger, frustration,

embarrassment, grief, disappointment, fear, anxiety and terror.

I am sure you can think of a few others to add to the list

because you probably get the idea by now that very strong

ones are referred to here as excessive or as negative. Even

excitement has the ability to change our thinking in a way we

might regret later.

Energy meridians and your emotions

years ago as used by the Chinese for acupuncture, there is a

lot of research currently being done by western medicos and

researchers to measure these meridians, just like they did

before they discovered the electrical signals that govern

the regulating and performance of our hearts, and the minute

electrical pulses that are produced by our brains.

What was discovered in the 1980's is that the energy meridians

are sensitive to anxiety and they become blocked or partially

blocked whenever the brain is reminded of an anxiety. This in

turn causes the excessive feelings described above.

Another way to put it is to say that whenever you have an

anxiety, you have a meridian blockage.

The patting process described in this website starting at Romance

Tips Number Three unblocks the meridians which allows the excessive

emotion to disappear - almost instantly. This is mostly

permanent although there can be many aspects contributing to the

emotion so it might take a few variations of patting to

completely clear the excessive emotion.

Once cleared you will find yourself suddenly released from a

burden that had been weighing you down and which prevented you

from acting relaxed and enjoying yourself in the company of

potential soul mates.

Examples are the removal of phobias such as a 'fear of heights,

or spiders', or removal of a poor self image, or lack of

confidence, or a fear of dating, or a fear of relationships.

Natural caution is never affected by patting

not stop their natural caution from telling them that it is

dangerous to go too close to the edge. It just means they

are no longer afraid of looking down from a height.

When patting on the meridian points removes the fear of heights,

it only removes the strong anxiety that is associated with the

heights problem that was causing a blockage of the energy flow.

Once released the energy flow returns to normal. Patting can

only return the meridians flow and the connected excessive

emotions to normal, it cannot go past normal.

If you patted for confidence, you would remove all the fears and

anxiety connected with your feelings of low confidence and once

removed you would feel very self assured, but you would not do

anything foolish because you would be in control and relaxed

while feeling very confident. It is more likely that you would

do something foolish if you felt a lack of confidence because

you can become desperate out of sheer frustration and the fear

of missing out.

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